smart phones aur technology ke daur main walidain ki zimma daari
smart phones aur technology ke daur main walidain ki zimma daari, hum aik aisay daur mein zindah hain jab duniya bas aik “click” ki doori par hai. mobile phones aur doosri smart devices ke internet se munsalik hotay hi jaisay sikndon poora Jahan aap ke samnay ajata hai .
tafreeh aur aam maloomat ke sath aam yeh technology taleem o tarbiyat mein bhi madadgaar hai, lekin yeh baat jahan suneney mein bhali maloom hoti hai, wahein walidain ke liye aik bara challenge bhi hai, kiun ke bachay chhootey hon ya no umar aaj kal sabhi mobile phones aur laip taap ka istemaal jantay hain .
ab jab ke corona ki waba phaily to school se le kar jamiyaat ki satah tak online parhai ka rujhan samnay aaya hai aur nojawan nasal ko mobile ya laip taap istemaal karne ka jaisay juwaz mil gaya. yeh kehna ghalat nah hoga ke ab chand fi sad hi log hon ge jo smart mobile phones istemaal nah karte hon. yun is daur main walidain ke liye apni aulaad ki tarbiyat karna aik bara challenge saabit ho raha hai aur bachon ki nigrani aur achay buray main tameez sikhate hue buraiyon se daur rakhna namumkin nahin to mushkil zaroor hogaya hai .
bachon par pabandiyan aur rokkk toak bhi makhsoos Umar tak hi mumkin hai aur dhadka laga rehta hai ke sakhti aur pabandiyan unhain khud sar aur baaghi nah bana den .
walidain ko kya karna chahiye? mahireen nafsiat ka kehna hai ke walidain –apne bachon se dosti ka talluq ustuwar karen. pyar o mohabbat se unhain masharti buraiyon aur ftnon ke baray mein aagah karen. har qadam par un ki raah namai karen aur narmi ke sath mauqa bah mauqa achay buray main tameez karna seekhiye. bachpan se hi unhein fazail o RAZAIL ikhlaq ka shaoor den. aksar dekha gaya hai ke choti Umar mein walidain bachon ko be ja laad pyar se bigaar dete hain aur barray honay par sakhti shuru kar dete hain. yeh bhi ghalat hai. bachpan hi se unhein achhai ki taraf Raghib karen aur un ki tarbiyat par tawajah den .
yeh aam mushahida hai ke baaz walidain apni jaan chhuranay ke liye poora poora din bachon ko mobile phone istemaal karne ya TV dekhnay ki ijazat day dete hain. idhar bachay ne rona shuru kya aur idhar mobile phone un ke haath mein thama diya gaya. yaad rakhen shayad is waqt to aap apni jaan churra lay ge aur pur-sukon tareeqay se –apne kaam main magan ho jayen ge, magar is terhan aap ka bacha ziddi aur mobile phone ke istemaal ka aadi ban sakta hai .
mobile yaqeenan aaj kal ke daur ki aik ahem aur bunyadi zaroorat hai, aur is ka istemaal faida mand hai ya nuqsaan da, yeh istemaal karne walay par munhasir hai. bachon ke sath dostana rawayya apnatay hue un ki dil chaspiyon, mashaghil, ghar se bahar un ke mahol aur doston par kari nazar rakhen. achay doston ka sath bhi aik Nemat hai aur buri sohbat mein aap ka bacha raah e raast se bhatak sakta hai. hum ftnon ke is daur mein daakhil ho chuke hain jahan qadam qadam par buraiyan aap ka rasta rokay khari hain. aisay mein walidain se behtar dost kon ho sakta hai ?
smart phones aur technology ke daur main walidain ki zimma daari, bachay agar ghalti karen to un ki sarznish is terhan ki jaye ke woh dobarah aap se koi bhi baat karte hue nah hichkachaye. aksar dekha gaya hai ke jin gharon mein be ja maar pait aur musalsal rokkk toak ki jaye, wahan bachay barray ho kar ghar se baaghi ho jatay hain aur be raah rawi ka shikaar ho saktay hain. is liye bachon ke sath shafqat se paish ayen, lekin zaroorat parney par sakhti bhi zaroori hai .
yeh bhi dekha gaya hai ke walidain bachon ko waqt nahi dete aur zroryatِ zindagi muhayya kar ke yeh samajte hain ke unho ne apna farz poora kar diya. aisa hargiz nahi hai. bachon ko aik khaas Umar tak aasayshon se ziyada aap ki tawajah aur waqt ki zaroorat hai. agar aaj aap –apne bachon ko waqt nahi den ge to yahi bachay barray ho kar aap se daur ho saktay hain. un ke sath khelain, un ke mashaghil janay, baat cheet karen aur un ke maloomat main dil chaspi len. maslan school ya college mein kaisa waqt guzra, unhon ne koi naya dost banaya, kisi se koi jhagra to nahi hwa. isi tarah aik khaas Umar main ghar ke chhootey motay mamlaat mein un ki raye bhi laazmi len. is se unhein apni ahmiyat ka ehsas hoga aur woh bhi apni zindagi main mushawarat aur –apne mamlaat mein aap se raye lainay ke aadi banay ge .
aulaad ki tarbiyat aik barri zimma daari hi nahin yaqeenan mushkil aur sabr aazma kaam bhi hai. shayad isi liye insaan ko ashraf almkhloqat ka darja diya gaya hai aur yahi cheez usay doosri makhloqaat se mumtaz karti hai. –apne bachon ko internet aur smart phones zaroor istemaal karne den, lekin un ki taraf se ghaafil nah rahen. pyar aur tawajah day kar aap apni aulaad ko naik, Saleh , apna farmaa bardaar, aur muashray ke liye bhi mufeed aur kaar amad bana satke hain .
