kya aap –apne bachay ko darpook aur buzdil dekhna chahtay hain ?
kya aap –apne bachay ko darpook aur buzdil dekhna chahtay hain ?, bachon ki zehni sehat ka khayaal rakhtay hue un ki mutawazan aur pُraatmad shakhsiyat ke liye un ki nafsiat ko samjhna aur is ki taamer karna bohat zaroori hai jis mein mahol bunyadi ahmiyat rakhta hai .
kisi malik aur qoum ki tahazeeb o Saqafat aur rasam o rivaaj bhi bachon ki nafsiat ki taamer o tashkeel mein ahem kirdaar ada karte hain. bar e sagheer pak o hind ke bachon ka mawazna agar maghribi mumalik ke bachon se kya jaye to wazeh farq mehsoos hoga .
bad qismati se hamaray yahan bachon ki zehni sehat par koi tawajah nahin di jati aur un ke jazbaat ka is terhan khayaal nahi rakha jata jo un ki shakhsiyat mein aetmaad aur aik Waqar peda kere. yahan hum aik ahem nuktay ki taraf aap ki tawajah mabzol karwa rahay hain jo shayad sab se bara masla hai aur bachon ko jazbati tor par nuqsaan pohanchata hai. mahireen nafsiat ke mutabiq hamaray yahan bachon ke dil mein bachpan se hi khauf bithanay ki koshish ki jati hai. is dar aur khauf ki mukhtalif soorten hosakti hin .
aam tor par raat gaye tak agar bachay nahi sotay to unhein kisi nah kisi janwar ya khayaali kirdaar se dara kar sulanay ki koshish ki jati hai. maslan so jao warna kutta aajay ga ya manu aajay gi. is ke ilawa sab se bara khauf aur darawa andheray ka hota hai jis se bachon ke dil mein kam suni hi mein tareek aur weraan maqam aur khaali kamron ka woh khauf baith jata hai ke woh barri Umar ko pounchanay tak is jaan nahin churra paate .
yaad rakhiye is terhan aap ka bachchoh darpook aur buzdil ban jata hai. aap mutalea karen to maloom ho ga aur aksar filmon mein aap ne dekha hi ho ga ke maghribi mumalik ke bachon ko chand saal ki Umar hi mein alehda kamray mein sonay ki aadat daal di jati hai. yeh un ke andar aetmaad peda karta hai aur woh agay chal kar aam zindagi mein bhi tanha halaat ka muqaabla karne aur mamool ki zindagi guzaarne ke qabil hotay hain .
mahireen ke mutabiq sonay se pehlay kahani sunana, achi baatein karna aur bachay ko gilaay lagana ya pyar karna bhi zaroori hai. is terhan un ke dil mein mohabbat aur ans ke jazbaat peda hotay hain. mahireen nafsiat ke mutabiq yeh bzahir aik choti si baat maloom hoti hai, lekin aik bachay ke zehen o dil par is ka gehra assar parta hai. mahireen is ki yeh wajah batatay hin ke bachay kam suni main –apne walidain ki be panah mohabbat ko samajhney se qassar rehtay hain, woh un ki mojoodgi aur qurbat ko to qubool kar chukay hotay hain, lekin unhein waqtan foqatan mohabbat aur tahaffuz ka ehsas dilanay ki zaroorat hoti hai. is se bachay ke aetmaad mein izafah hota hai .
walidain ko chahiye ke woh bachon ko dar aur khauf ka mahol dainay ke bajaye inhain pُraatmad, nidar aur halaat se muqaabla karkay jeet –apne naam karne wala banayen aur is ke liye mandarja baala baton par zaroor ghhor karen .
