Khudkushi masayal ka hal nahi
Khudkushi masayal ka hal nahi, jab se yeh corona aaya hai, aik taraf to zindagi tham si gayi, to doosri taraf is se honay wali amwaat ne poori duniya mein gham ki fiza qaim kar di hai. sab hi muntazir hain ke zindagi ki ronaqai kab bahaal hon gi. is sab mein aap ne poori duniya se mukhtalif shobo se wabasta logon ki khudkushi karne ke bohat se waqeat ke baray mein suna hoga. jab koi apna kisi bhi wajah se is duniya se rukhsat hota hai to sabr ajata hai. yeh aik qudrati cheez hai ke sab ne jana hai, magar jab koi khud hi apni zindagi ka khtama karta hai, to un ke ghar walay kis aziat se guzarte hain, yeh hum andaza bhi nahi kar satke .
kuch mahinay pehlay aik khatoon ne –apne aklote betay ki khudkushi ke baray mein bataya, jo ke khud payshay se maahir nafsiat hain. un ka kehna tha ke un ka beta khush tha, parhai mein theek tha, muashi lehaaz se bhi koi masla nahi tha. aik din achanak university se aakar is ne khudkushi karli. un ke muhallay ki masjid ke molvi ne un ke betay ka namaz e janaza parhanay se hi inkaar kardiya, kyunkay un ke betay ne khudkushi ki thi. phir agla marhala rishte daaron aur muhallay walon ke teekhay sawal ke aisa kya kardiya ke khudkushi ki nobat aagai, woh ab tak sehney par majboor hain .
mein jab America mein thi to mujhe wahan dil ke barray srjnz miyan biwi ke baray mein pata chala, jo aik shadi mein madoo thay. woh dono dil ke dr, India se thay. America mein khoob naam banaya, un ke do bachay thay, beta kumar aur beti meena. betay ne America mein hi gori se shadi ki, magar jald hi un ke gharelo jhagray shuru hogaye. jab shadi mohabbat ki ho, to nibhana to parta hai, phir chahay logon ko dikhaane ke liye hi kyun nah ho. wahan shadi karna aisa hi hai ke shadi chal gayi to chaand tak, nahi to raat tak. shadi ko paanch saal hogaye, do bachay bhi hogaye, magar un ke jhagray kam nahi hue. aur phir aik subah kumar office ke liye ghar se nikla, aur apni hi gaari mein khud ko goli maar li. is ki mout ke baad is ke walidain –apne potay aur poti tak se nahi mil satke, kyun ke un ki baho milnay nahi deti. wahan ke qanoon ke mutabiq yeh maa ki marzi hai ke woh bachon ko dada, dadi se milnay day ya nah milnay day. is sanihay ke koi do saal baad un ki beti ne khud ko is waqt goli maar kar khud ki jaan le li, jab is ki baarat ka din tha, aur shadi bhi is ki pasand ki thi. is jore ke paas naam, shohrat, paisa, sab hai magar aulaad ka sukh nahi hai. is liye woh mil kar ab –apne malik ke bachon ke liye falahi kaam karte hain aur unhon ne apni jaedad isi kaam ke liye waqf kar di hai .
Khudkushi masayal ka hal nahi, abhi Punjab ke aik ilaqay mein aik khatoon ki shohar se phone par larai hui, jo ke bahar rehta tha. is khatoon ne apni tenu bachiyon samait neher mein chhalang lagadi. khud to bach gayi magar bachiyan jaanbar nah hosakin. aik bachay ne game ki wajah se jaan di, to doosri taraf larke larki ne mil kar jaan di kyunkay un ki familes un ki shadi ke khilaaf theen. abhi zafarwal ke ilaqay mein aik baap ne gurbat se tang aakar teen bachon samait zeher pi liya. abhi Karachi mein dr maha ki khudkushi ka maamla samnay aaya, jo ke dr honay ke sath social media par model ke tor par kaafi aykto thi. ibtidayi tehqeeq ke mutabiq is ke waalid ke sath ikhtilafat thay aur is ka qareebi dost usay is ki kuch nazebah tasaveer ke liye black mil kar raha tha. sachaai samnay anay mein waqt lagey ga, magar woh ab wapas kabhi nahi aaye gi. aisay pata nahi kitney hi waqeat aap ki nazron se guzray hon ge. hamaray liye yeh mehez aik khabar hoti hai, magar jis ghar mein yeh alamnaak mout hoti hai, un ki haalat ka hum andaza bhi nahi kar saktay .
Khudkushi masayal ka hal nahi’ world health organization ki report ke mutabiq poori duniya mein salana 8 laakh log khudkushi karte hain. yani har 40 second mein aik khudkushi. aur poori duniya mein 15 se 29 saal ke logon ki mout ki doosri barri wajah khudkushi hai. w each o ki 2016 ki aik report ke mutabiq khudkushi ka sab se ziyada rujhan Europe mein raha, aur dosray number par south east asia ka raha. daily mil, London mein 11 April 2020 ko Germany mein kya gaya aik surway article’ ‘ kon se group ke log ziyada khush rehtay hain’ ‘ shaya kya gaya, jis mein 67, 500 logon ka interview kya gaya. is surway ke mutabiq jo log mazhab ko mantay hain, woh mulhid yani koi bhi mazhab nah maan-ne walon ke muqablay mein ziyada khush hotay hain, aur mazhab maan-ne walon mein sab se ziyada khush musalman aur dosray number par isaai hain. hum woh khush naseeb hain jo musalman peda hue, woh deen jo ke mukammal zabita hayaat hai, magar hamaray haan bhi ab khudkushi ke waqeat mein izafah ho raha hai .
hamaray haan khudkushi ki wajohaat mein gurbat, parhai mein achay grade nah lana, gharelo jhagray, pasand ki shadi nah hona, depration aur aaj kal cyber crimes ke zariye larkiyon ko tasaveer ya videos ke liye black mil karna waghera shaamil hain .
Khudkushi masayal ka hal nahi’ khudkushi kisi bhi haalat mein jaaiz nahi hosakti, kitney hi mushkil halaat kyun nah hon, masail ka saamna kijiyej, un se bhagain nahi. zindagi mein bohat dost hona bilkul bhi zaroori nahi hai, bas aik acha dost hi kaafi hai, jis se aap dil ki har baat keh saken. kyunkay jab dil par masail, mushkilaat aur pareshaniyon ka boojh barh jata hai, tabhi dimagh aap ko zindagi aur mout ki kashmakash mein mubtala karta hai aur dimagh aisay chemical peda karta hai jo aap ko khudkushi karne par aksate hain. is liye dil par boojh nah ban’nay dijiye. aur is ka sab se aasaan nuskha Allah ko yaad karna, is ka shukar karna aur is par bharosa karna hai .
kaisay hi halaat kyun nah hon, sabr aur shukar ka daman kabhi bhi nah chhorhie. har insani zindagi urooj aur zawaal ki daastaa’n hai, aur yeh dono kisi ki zindagi mein ziyada der nahi tikte. aur un mein se kis ka dorania ziyada hoga, yeh sara sar khud insaan par munhasir hai ke woh un ko deal kaisay karta hai, to jo jeeta wohi Sikandar .
quran Majeed surah alsharh mein takraar ke sath do ayaat hain ke’ ‘ be shak har mushkil ke sath aasani hai’ ‘. to bas Allah par yaqeen rakhiye ke yeh waqt bhi guzar jaye ga .
