ishhq mamdooh
ishhq mamdooh, baat sirf sachhi aur ruswai wali hi nahi balkay herat ki bhi hai ke mojooda madah parast aur khudgharz daur mein bhi maghrib o mashriq mein ishhq ki misalein aam hain .
aur sachhi baat yeh bhi hai ke –apne haan kisi’ aurat’ se ishhq karne wala poooray khuloos se ishhq ke bawajood’ ‘ madah parasti’ ‘ ke ilzaam se nahi bach sakta! aur ishhq kaam yab hojaye to yahi madah parasti zan mureedi se mulaqab hojati hai. is se qabal ashaaq ke silsilay mein ishhq haqeeqi aur majazi ki istilahein aam theen lekin jab se social media par bhi ishhq ka silsila aam sun-hwa hai to ishhq majazi mazeed majazi hi nahi balkay aur mazay daar ho gaya hai. puranay ashaaq ka ishhq gali mohalla aur school madrassa tak mehdood hota tha bakol shayar
” awwal ishhq madrasay aaya sharam haya da sabaq bhulaya.’ ‘
jab ke mojooda daur mein ishhq nah sirf bain ( collegeon aur universition mein bain alklyati bhi ) aur bain almehlati balkay bain al aqwami aur bain albar aazmi o bain nasadi bhi ho gaya hai .
ishhq mamdooh, ab yeh khabrain aam hain ke Pakistani larka cheeni larki bayah laya ya cheeni larke ne Pakistani larki se shadi karli. yun eghore maslay ke bawajood pak chain yoi Wang soi ho raha hai __ yaani pak chain dosti mazboot tar ho rahi hai __ aur ab filmi geeton mein hi nahi balkay aagre ka dulha agar chahay to social media par kisi angraizan se majazi taluqaat qaim karkay haqeeqat mein angrezi dulhan laa sakta hai ( wazeh rahay ke yahan aagre se hamari morad Liyari wali agrah taaj colony hai nah ke hindustani taaj mehal wala agrah ) .
ishhq ki taaza tareen daastaa’n jo ke is waqt media aur social media par bara rush le rahi hai woh hair raanjha ki nahi balkay’ ‘ harry meghan’ ‘ ki daastaa’n ishhq hai. sahbo! agar koi samjhta hai ke’ ‘ yeh maal o dolat duniya o rishta o pewand’ ‘, aala maqam aur ouncha ohda hi khushi wa musarrat ka baais hai to aisa qatee nahi hai, is ke khilaaf maazi aur haal ki kayi misalein dast yab hain. lekin hum yahan chun keh Bartanwi Shahi khandan ki baat kar rahay hain to misaal bhi Shahi khandan ki hi den ge. Shahi khanwadon ka har fard hi khush ya khush qismat nahi hota. aaj se koi pawan sadi pehlay ki baat hai ke decemeber 1936 mein Bartania ke mehez aik saal qabal nasheen honay walay Shah edward hshtm ne apni mehbooba ko panay ke liye inglistan aur hindostan ki hukoomaton se dast bardari ka elaan kar daala aur Bartania aur Shahi khandan ko aik siyasi aur Shahi bohraan mein mubtala kardiya .
ishhq mamdooh, baad azan shehzada charles ki misaal hai jo ke ishhq to kar baithy lekin’ ‘ khayaal tark tamanna’ ‘ hi kr dala -aur takhat to kya tark kar te khandan ko bhi nah tayag kar paye aur hamaray aik’ ‘ bain allsani leader’ ‘ ke vird zabaan sahir ludehyanwi ke shair
tum mein himmat hai to duniya se baghaawat kar do
warna maa baap jahan kehte hain shadi kar lo
ke mutabiq majaburan shehzadi Diana se shadi karli. wohi Diana ke jis ki mohabbat mein baad mein aik zamana mubtala sun-hwa aur abhi tak hai. kya mrdozn kya pairo jawan- aur kayi aashqan pak Tanat to, jab ke woh khaak hogayi hon gi to bhi un ki chahat mein mubtala hain. aur aanjhani shehzadi ka tazkara karte hue un ki ankhen aur gala bhar aata hai. is mauqa par josh Malih abadi sahib ka qissa yaad agaya, barray khasay ki cheez hai. marhoom –apne ghar mein doston se Sabiqa mehboobaon ka tazkara karte karte aabb deedaa hogaye. ittafaq se un ki begum bhi mauqa par kisi kaam se aan mojood huien. ronay ka sabab poocha to ab un ko kya kehte ke sabiq mehboobaon ko yaad farma kar roya ja raha hai, farmaya diya,’ ‘ kuch nahi walida mohtarma yaad aagai theen.’ ‘
ishhq mamdooh, so sahbo! charles sahib mein chun keh woh himmat nahi thi jo ke adroad hashtm mein thi is liye unhon ne shehzadi Diana se shadi karli aur un se woh’ ‘ msavyanh sulooq’ ‘ kya ke nah khud khush reh sakay aur nah hi shehzadi Diana ko rehne diya. woh Shahi khandan ko to bohraan mein nah daal sakay lekin un ki azdawaji zindagi roz awwal se mbtlaye bohraan rahi. aur yeh shadi shehzadi Diana ki merg mafajat par mntj hui. is ke baad shehzada charles ne apni mehbooba kmila parkr ( dil chasp baat yeh hai ke urdu mein kmila qassab khanaay ka mutradif hai aur aik baar kmila ne charles par mzaqan churee bhi taan li thi ) se shadi rchali. shehzadi Diana ki kahani ka alum naak injaam charles o kaamila ki daastaa’n ko Tarb naak bana gaya .
Naseem subah Gulshan mein gulon se khelti hogi
kisi ki aakhri hichki kisi ki dil lagi hogi
lekin thehr yai ishhq aur baghaawat ka tasalsul jari hai _ picture abhi baqi hai :
shehzadi Diana ki aulaad bhi unhi ki terhan baaghi saabit hui. nah sirf shehzada william ne aik aam khatoon se shadi karli balkay shehzada harry ne bhi kisi shehzadi se shadi karne ke bajaye aik aam khatoon ko pasand kya. is par mstzad ke un ki dulhan aik rang daar nasal ki khatoon theen- yaani aik to karela dosra name cherheela. .. maaf kiijiye ga name charha! yeh soorat e haal Shahi khandan ke liye ziyada takleef da thi aur aakhir kaar shehzada harry ko nah sirf Shahi rutbey se dast bardaar hona para balkay Shahi khandan ko bhi chhorna para. aur ab yeh tairan ishhq talai teelian toar kar qafas Shahi se bahar azad khuli fizaon mein mandala rahay hain. yeh aur baat hai ke un ki yeh azadana parwaaz Shahi khandan ki khafgi o pasti ka sabab ban rahi hai aur Shahi khandan wazahaten aur safaiyan paish karne par majboor hogaya hai .
ishhq mamdooh, media mein gardish karti it-tila-aat ke mutabiq Bartania ke sahebzaade balkay sabiq sahebzaade harry aur un ki ahliya sabiq shehzadi meghan mrkil ne guzashta dinon mashhoor Amrici maizban opera o nafray ko do ghantay taweel interview diya hai, jis ke baad Shahi khandan ke setaaray gardish mein hain. Shahi khandan se alehadgi ke baad –apne pehlay intehai zaati noiyat ke interview mein meghan mrkil ne khil kar baatein ki hain. yun kahiye ke Shahi khandan ka kacha chtha khol ke rakh diya hai aur usay badnaam karne mein koi kasar nahi choari .
meghan mrkil ne opera o nafray ko interview mein bataya ke Shahi khandan ki taraf se inhen woh mohabbat aur tahaffuz nahi mila jo kay kisi shareef khandan ki baho beti ko milna chahiye. unhon ne kaha ke,’ ‘ mujhe Shahi khandan ki taraf se tahaffuz nahi mila ( hadd to yeh hai ke ) Shahi khandan ko is baat par bhi aitraaz tha ke hamaray bachay ka rang siyah ho sakta hai. bachay ki paidaiesh ke baad Shahi khandan ki taraf se bachay ki tasweer ke silsilay mein bhi un se koi rabita nahi kya gaya.’ ‘
meghan ki bakol Shahi khandan ke aik fard ne aik mauqa par khadsha zahir kya ke,’ ‘ aarchi ( meghan aur harry ke Farzand ) ka rang kis qader siyah hoga.’ ‘
opera o nafray ne jab is fard ke baray mein janna chaha to meghan ne is ka naam lainay se inkaar kar diya. un ka kehna tha ke is qisam ka inkishaaf Mosoof ke liye nuqsaan da saabit ho sakta hai. harry ne bhi is silsilay mein kisi tabsaray se inkaar kardiya aur kaha ke yeh aik aisi baat hai jo ke woh kisi se bhi bayan nah karna chahain ge .
un ki is baat se is baat ka andaza zaroor hota hai ke agarchay woh Shahi khandan se kis qader naraaz hain lekin phir bhi woh un ka bharam barqarar rakhna chahtay hain .
Shahi khandan par nasal parasti ka ilzaam aed karte hue meghan ne kaha ke’ ‘ Shahi khandan ke afraad nahi chaah rahay thay ke hamara beta shehzada ya shehzadi kehlaye.’ ‘
zahir hai ke is ka bunyadi sabab is ka siyah faam hona hi ho sakta hai .
meghan ne opera ko bataya ke’ ‘ mein Shahi khandan se is qader naraaz thi ke khudkushi tak ka soch liya. mein ne zehni tanao ke aalam mein Shahi khandan se bhi madad chahi lekin koi madawa nah hwa.’ ‘
opera ne is mauqa par un se poocha ke kya khudkushi ki khayalat inhen ayyaam hamal mein aaye? to unhon nah kaha ke’ ‘ yeh bilkul wazeh khayalat thay.’ ‘
” Shahi khandan ka hissa ban’nay ke baad mujhe khamosh kara diya gaya. mujhe to ilm hi nah tha ke Shahi khandan ka fard kaisay rehta hai. meri krdar kashi ki gayi.’ ‘
ishhq mamdooh, apni is Shadeed jazbati kefiyat ke baray mein unhon mazeed bataya ke’ ‘ mera jee zindagi se achat ho gaya tha. yeh aik srihan wazeh, haqeeqi aur khauf naak kefiyat thi aur mujhe yaad hai ke harry ne is douran kis terhan se mujhe sanbhala aur sahara diya.’ ‘
aik sawal ke jawab mein unhon ne kate mudlaton se kisi bhi qisam ke ikhtilafat aur tanazeaat ki afwahon ko mustard karte hue kaha ke mere un se nihayat achay taluqaat hain aur unhon kate mudlaton ki tareef karte hue kaha ke,’ ‘ kate mudlaton aik achi insaan hain. mujhe umeed hai ke woh bhi zaati tor par is silsilay mein AFWAHON ki tardeed karna pasand karen gi.’ ‘
is mauqa par shehzada harry ka kehna tha ke’ ‘ Shahi khandan se ikhtilafat ke bunyaad par hi apni walida ko paish anay wali takaleef ke baray mein soch kar un ka dil tarap tarap uthta hai, kyon keh woh aur meghan to aaj sath sath hain jab ke shehzadi Diana ko yeh sab kuch tanha hi jhelna para tha.’ ‘
unhon ne bataya ke,’ ‘ hum ne Shahi khandan mein guzara karne ki har mumkin koshish ki,’ ‘ lekin un ki taraf se munasib rawayya ke bajaye mayoosi aur nakami naseeb hui. unhon ne khaas tor par –apne waalid shehzada charles ki shikayat karte kaha ke’ ‘ mujhe –apne waalid shehzada charles ki taraf se bhi is muamlay mein koi himayat nah mil saki jab ke Bartanwi Shahi khandan ne meri biwi se jo sulooq kya woh yaqeenan meri walida ke liye pareshan kin hota.’ ‘
36 sala harry ne opera ko interview mein bataya ke’ ‘ meghan ke khilaaf tablied press ki taraf se nasal parastana sulooq ke baray mein bhi Shahi khandan ke kisi fard ki taraf se zabaan se koi harf Hamiyat o himayat nahi nikla.’ ‘
harry ke mutabiq media khaas tor par press nah sirf yeh ke nasal parast hai lekin woh Bartanwi muashray ko masmoom o makdar kiye day raha hai. Albata unhon ne malka Bartania ke hawalay se kaha ke woh un se qatan naraaz nahi, woh un se raabtey mein hain aur un se hamari guftagu hoti rehti hai aur haal hi mein unhon ne aarchi se video cal par bhi guftagu farmai hai .
ishhq mamdooh, qisah harry o meghan abhi khatam nahi sun-hwa. un ke taaza tareen interview ke silsilay mein ahem baat yeh bhi hai ke yeh interview bi bi si jaisay idaray ne bhi paish kya hai aur harry o meghan ke is interview ke hawalay se ilaqai aur aalmi media par mukhtalif tabsaray aur tajziye paish kiye jarahay hain lekin aksar Mubassir aur tajzia nigaar is nuktay par mutfiq hain ke Shahi khandan ko chorney ke baad yeh miyan biwi khush hain aur apni khoshion ke bajaye Shahi khandan se dast bardari is jore ko raas aagai hai .
Shahi khandan ka mamnoo ishhq duniya bhar mein mamdooh ho raha hai .
