Digital duniya k aseer bachay
Digital duniya k aseer bachay, kehte hain ke’ kisi bhi mujrim ko pehla pathar woh maaray jis ne kabhi koi jurm nah kya ho’ hum sab din raat doosron par tanqeed karne aur –apne tain un ki islaah ki koshish mein lagey rehtay hain, lekin khud kitney pani mein hain. .. ?
yeh kabhi dheyaan nahi dete, kyun ke hamein is par ghhor karne ka bhi waqt nahi milta aur phir yun hota hai ke aap ki buraiyon par koi aur dheyaan dainay par majboor sun-hwa jata hai aur aisa karne ke liye usay juwaz bhi darasal hum khud hi fraham karte hain .
mera jab bhi bahar jane ka ittafaq sun-hwa, mein ne yahi dekha ke wahan log –apne kaam se kaam rakhtay hain, koi kisi ki taraf daikhta nahi, kisi ke baray mein andaza laganay ki koshish nahi karta. bohat paas phone hota hai, jis ka speaker kaanon mein urs kar woh apni duniya mein magan rehta hai, lekin yeh mera mushahida hai, zahir hai ke aj kal mobile phone mein aik allag hi duniya jo abad hai, woh nah kisi ko bore honay deti hai aur nah hi haqeeqi duniya par dheyaan dainay ka mauqa deti hai. go ke woh digital duniya mein bhi kisi dosray hissay ki haqeeqi duniya hai, magar hum sab is ke liye –apne is paas ke mahol ko mukammal nazar andaaz kar dete hain. . .
yani aap ke ghar mein agar koi ahem masla chal raha hoga, to shayad aap ko is ke baray mein itni maloomat nahi hon gi, jitni aap ko kisi aur ke masloo ke baray mein pata hoga, kyun ke aik ghar aur aik chhat ke neechay rehtay hue hum zehni tor par apni jagah se ghair haazir aur amlan kahin aur hotay hain, apni mukhtalif’ mobile apps’ ya social media ke zariye. yeh rujhan jo mein ne deegar mumalik mein dekha, ab Pakistan mein bhi nazar ata hai, lekin jaisa ke hum jab bhi koi maghribi cheez par chalna shuru karte hain to apni hudood bhi bhool kar chaar haath uge nikal jatay hain .
hamara ghar ho ya daftar, har jagah yahi mahol milta hai, haath mein phone aur is par gaarii hui nazrain, samnay baithy insaan ko mukhatib karne ke liye jitni koshish karni padtee hain, itni mehnat is shakhs ko nahi karni padtee, jo aap se’ online’ raabtey mein hota hai, yahan msg kya, idhar to foran jawab dena aisa hogaya hai ke jaisay koi farz, jis ke qaza honay ka dar ho, jab ke hum –apne samnay mojood logon ko nazar andaz kar rahay hotay hain .
hamein andaza bhi nahi hota ke hamara dheyaan mobile ki screen par itna hai ke hamein pata hi nahi ke samnay wala teen chaar baar aik hi baat pooch pooch kar ab hamaray’ ‘ hain ?’ ‘ kehnay par hamein kitni ajeeb nazron se dekh raha hai .
is hawalay se is se bara masla aur kya hoga ke ab maaen –apne bachay ko behlaane ke liye haath mein mobile thama deti hain ke woh unhein tang nah kere aur khud hi’ youtube’ par cartoon lgale ya phir avrkoyi munasib ya ghair munasib dil chasp cheeze daikhta rahay, yun woh be fikar ho kar –apne kaam mein masroof ho jati hain. is zimn mein unhein kuch ehsas is waqt hota hai jab un ke bachay mehangay mehangay mobile, kharab karne lagtay hain .
Digital duniya k aseer bachay, kyun ke woh bachay ki zid se jaan chhuranay ke liye is ke haath mein thama diye gaye hotay hain. is liye ab bachon ko is se kya sarokaar ke mobile kharab karkay woh kitney hazaron ka nuqsaan kar dete hain, unhein to mobile ki latt unheen ke barron ne lagai hui hoti hai, balkay ab to soorat e haal yeh hai ke do, do saal ke bachay bhi barray behan bhaiyon ke dekha dekhi yeh zid karte hain ke un ke haath mein yeh’ smart phone’ day diya jaye .
shuruvaat mein to maaon ko aur deegar ahal khanah ko bohat fakhr mehsoos hota hai ke hamara kam sin bacha kitni mahaarat se yeh touch phone istemaal kar raha hai, lekin kuch waqt ke baad jab yahi aadat aik nashay ki terhan ban jati hai, aur aap ka apna hi mobile up ko astmaal karne ke liye bachon ki mannatain karni padtee hain, yani jo cheez bachay ko behlaane ke liye di gayi, woh is ke bana’ behlnay’ se inkari ho jata hai .
taqreeban har ghar mein bachay aaj kal yahi karte nazar atay hain.’ whats app’ se le kar’ tِiktok’ aur phir agay youtube tak. .. aap kab tak aur kitni nazar rakhen ge ke woh kya daikhta hai? kis se baat karta hai, ya’ chhota bhim’ laga kar nihayat fuzool, be maienay aur wahyat qisam ki cheeze dekh raha hai ya koi malomati film bhi is ka shoq hai .
aisay bachon ki tadaad yaqeenan bohat kam hai, jo is zariye se waqai kuch haasil bhi karte hain, koi naya software ya kisi nai zabaan par uboor haasil karne ki koshish, –apne mustaqbil ke liye sochte aur usay samajhney ke liye internet ka sahara letay hain .
Digital duniya k aseer bachay, lekin aisay bachay ziyada tadaad mein mil jayen ge, jin ke walidain aur buzurag namazi parhaizgaar, ibadat guzaar aur mazhabi hotay hain, lekin woh bachay kisi ganay par raqs kar rahay hotay hain, kisi adakar ki naqal kar rahay hotay hain, mukhtalif apps par ajeeb vghrib aur be bakana mkalmon ko ada kar rahay hotay hain ya un par adakari kar rahay hotay hain .
bohat se maa baap bachon ka’ talent’ dekh kar khush ho rahay hotay hain, unhein pazeerai millti hai, nateeja yeh ke aaj kal har insaan –apne mein aik’ star’ bana ghoom raha hai, woh ikhlaqiaat aur tarbiyat jo barron ke zariye millti thi, is ka rivaaj bilkul hi khatam ho gaya hai .
social media ke’ ‘ doston’ ‘ se ziyada hamdard aur kher khuwa koi bhi nazar hi nahi aata, bas wohi sahih aur baqi sab ghalat hain. . .
darasal guzashta dinon’ lock down’ ke sabab bachay jis qader parhai waghera se daur rahay, itna hi un khurafaat ke qareeb ho gaye, har bachay aur barray ka’ youtube’ channel’ tik talk’ par aayi d aur phir har lamha koi nai cheez laganay ke liye mushaqqat aur fikar. . .
koi bhi kaam agar aitdaal mein kya jaye, to ghalat nahi hota, lekin waqt guzari ke mashaghil ko zindagi guzaarne ke liye ahem bana liya jaye, to yaqeenan tabahi hi aati hai. . .
Digital duniya k aseer bachay, apna phone’ khamosh’ rakh kar, har’ application’ mein’ password’ laga kar apna mobile phone aik nihayat niji malkiat zahir kar ke, hum sab din raat aik dosray se –apne aib aur aur ghalatiyan chhupa rahay hotay hain, jin ke zahir honay par tabahi aati hai. . .
hum barray bhi bachon ko tawajah nahi dete, woh programme aur daramay, jo kisi wajah se nahi dekh sakay, woh dekhna bachon ki baat suneney se ziyada ahem, be charah bacha apna sa mun le kar kamray se chala jata hai, jab usay tawajah nahi di jati. .. kitaaben ab bhi apni ahmiyat aur aik allag infiradiat aur wujood rakhti hain, un se doori abhi is had tak nahi hui, is liye bachon mein kisi nah kisi satah par is aadat ko ab bhi pukhta kya ja sakta hai .
yeh baat bhi corona’ lock down ‘ ke dinon mein wazeh hogayi, jab bachay online classon se tang aagaye aur inhen apni copy par likhna kitaab mein parhna yaad une laga, lekin ghhor karne ki baat yeh hai ke har waqt mobile phone mein mashgool bachay, is hi mobile par theek se parhai ke liye amaada nah ho sakay .
Digital duniya k aseer bachay, khelon ki sargarmia waisay hi’ corona’ phelnay ke khadshay ki bana par mehdood hain, lekin agar bachay ko is ke liye amadah kar liya jaye, to bacha kehta hai, mein cycle chalata hwa aaon ga aap meri video banayiyae ga, mein cricket khelon ga to balling ya batting karte hue meri tasweer khenchna aur phir sab ko whats app ke’ group’ mein bhejna .
har sargarmi ko’ social media’ ki zeenat banana, koi khushi, koi gham koi bhi chhootey barray waqea se apnon aur gheiron ko aagah rakhna aik had tak to theek hai, lekin aik waqt par yeh amal doosron ko ehsas kam tri mein daal sakta hai ke jo kuch aap ke dost ke paas hai, woh aap ke paas kyun nahi, aik dosray se agay jane ki daud, khoob soorat dikhayi dainay ka muqaabla, nai nai jaghon par jana, –apne chhootey se kaam ko bhi tamam logon ke samnay paish karna, jin ka aap se koi talluq bhi nah ho,’ hifazati nuqta nigah’ se bhi khatarnaak ho sakta hai, achi maloomat aur khayalat doosron ke sath baantna misbet guftagu karna aik acha pehlu zaroor hai .
Talaq ka rujhan, najaaiz rishte, khud kshyaN, dshmnyan, dhoka dahi’ online shopping’ ya kisi aur shakal mein, zayad-ti ke waqeat, bachon ki zehni soch Umar se ziyada barri ho chuki hai, hum sahih aur ghalat ka faisla karne mein insaaf karne se qassar ho chuke hain, yeh woh buraiyan hain, jo hum ab mehsoos bhi nahi kar paate, un jaisay be thaasha masail sirf’ internet’ aur’ social media’ ki wajah se janam le rahay hain, shayad anay walay waqt mein, un masail mein izafah ho, un ke hal aur sad-e-baab ke baray mein sochna chahiye .
agarchay’ social media’ par ki jane wali har sargarmi’ ghalat’ aur’ gunah’ ke zumray mein nahi aati, hum sab is ka hissa hain, –apne –apne shoq ke mutabiq hum is ka istemaal bhi karte hain, tiktok, youtube, insta gram aur nah jane kon kon se social media application hum istemaal karte hain, yeh ab zaroorat bhi ban chuki hai, lekin mujh samait tamam khawateen khanah ko bachon ke liye kam az kam hudood ka taayun karna zaroori hai, lekin bachon ke liye yeh lazim hai, jo abhi muashray mein rehne ka dhang seekh rahay hain, un ki bunyaad jaisi banay gi, to imarat bhi waisi hi taamer hogi .
barri Umar ke log is baat ka kisi qader ehsas rakhtay hain ke’ social media’ ke zariye milnay wali daad wa tehseen ya salam dua, haqeeqi duniya mein kam hi ahmiyat rakhti hai, lekin bachon ka zehen un tajarbaat se nah aashna aur un hasasat se bohat paray hota hai. is liye woh is par bohat ziyada inhisaar karne lagtay hain, yeh cheez un ki nafsiat aur shakhsiyat ki taamer mein bhi mukhil hoti hai .
is Umar ka insaan yeh jaanta hai ke un cheezon par saraha jana ziyada maienay nahi rakhta, hansi mazzaq mein baat khatam ho jati hai, lekin agar aisi cheeze bachon par aur terhan assar andaaz hoti hain. doosri taraf unhein ghar mein bhi saraha jaye, to sonay par suhaga wali baat hojati hai, is liye zaroori hai bachon ko un cheezon ke liye saraha jaye jo un ke liye kaar amad ho .
bachon par mehnat karni padtee hai, aik mobile khilonay ke naam par haath mein dainay walay walidain kuch waqt baad sir par haath rakh kar baithy hotay hain, bachon ko waqt ki zaroorat hoti hai. un ke sath baith kar guftagu karen, kuch nai baatein bitayen, –apne bachpan ke qissay sunaein. woh khail un ke sath khelain, inhen is nazar se duniya deikhein jis nazar se up dekhna chahtay hain, yeh zimma daari ghar walon ki hi hai, warna kisi aur ko aap ki aulaad ki behtari mein koi dil chaspi nahi hogi, is ke baggar jane par baatein bananay walay bohat mil jayen ge .
Digital duniya k aseer bachay, –apne mobile phone ko raabtey ka zareya hi samjhain, waqt guzari ke liye kuch waqt tafreeh ka silsila hona bhi ghalat nahi, lekin usay avrhhna bichona bana lena har terhan se bigaar peda karta hai, agar hum doosron par tanqeed ke bah jaye apni islaah par tawajah dainay lagen, to duniya hi kuch allag hogi, bachon ki zindagi mein tawazun aur unhein digital ki qaid se nikaal kar haqeeqi duniya mein layein taakay un ka –apne aap aur –apne ird gird se natha munqita nah ho .
