Badlay ki aag main sulagta hua muashra
Badlay ki aag main sulagta hua muashra, pichlle dinon turbat mein journalist Shahina shaheen balouch ko goli maar kar qatal kardiya gaya. woh aik artist, balochi magazine ki editor aur TV host bhi theen. ibtidayi tor par yeh samnay aaya ke is ke Sabiqa shohar ne hi usay jaan se maar diya. yani izzat ke naam par aik aur aurat jaan se gayi. aik mard se yeh bardasht nahi sun-hwa ke is se alehadgi ke baad Shahina nah sirf khush thi balkay apni zindagi mein agay bhi jarahi thi .
abhi kuch din pehlay Karachi mein aik motorcycle sawaar ko roka jata hai, mobile chenna aur phir golian maar kar mout ke ghaat utaar diya gaya. yeh bzahir daketi ki waardaat lagi, lekin si si TV ki madad se police ne mulzimaan ko shanakht kya to kahani kuch aur hi niklee. maqtool ka naam Muneef tha, jis ki kuch arsay qabal shadi hui, is ki aik dost thi jis se shadi karne ka wada tha, lekin shadi kahin aur karli. shadi ke baad larka larki ko chorney par tayyar nahi tha, nah hi is se shadi karni thi, balkay usay is ki tasweeron ke hawalay se black mil karne laga, jab is ne bhi agay shadi karne ka faisla kya. un sab se tang aakar larki ne qatal ka mansoobah bana liya. larke ko muqarara jagah par bulaya, wahan –apne dost ko bheja, jis ne –apne aik aur dost ki madad se daketi ki waardaat ka rang day kar jaan se maar diya .
Badlay ki aag main sulagta hua muashra’ kuch saal pehlay aik aisa hi waqea Liyari mein bhi hwa tha, jab Pakistan dehshat gardi ke khilaaf jung lar raha tha. aik ghar se bomb phatnay ki aawaz aayi. woh do kamron par mushtamil chhota sa ghar tha. dhamakay ki aawaz bohat khatarnaak thi, aur andar se kisi mard ke chalanay ki aawaz musalsal aa rahi thi. un dinon dehshat gardi –apne urooj par thi. log dar gaye, is liye police aur hassas idaron ke anay se pehlay koi andar nahi gaya. police ko andar se aik aadmi zakhmi haalat mein mila. ibtidayi tor par yahi pata chala ke ghar ke andar dhamaka khaiz mawaad mojood tha, jis ke phatnay se dhamaka sun-hwa. woh ghar sale kardiya gaya aur kuch dinon ke baad muamlay ki asal haqeeqat samnay aayi, jis ne sab ko chonka diya. is ghar mein fazl Nami aadmi rehta tha, jis ki do saal pehlay is ki walida ne shadi karwai. jis se shadi hui woh gharon mein kaam karti thi. shuru mein sab theek chala, lekin phir is ki biwi ko pata chala ke woh nasha karta hai aur kaam kaaj bhi koi nahi karta. is larki ne saas ke zariye is ko samjhaya ke woh aisay nakara rahay ga to ghar kaisay chalay ga, magar fazl ne aik nah suni. larai jhagray ab is ghar ka mamool thay aur achanak fazl ki maa ki intqaal hogaya. mazeed kuch waqt guzra magar fazl mein koi tabdeeli nah aayi. tang aakar is ki biwi –apne maikay chali gayi, Talaq ka mutalba kardiya aur is mein is ke ghar walon ne bhi sath diya. zahir hai ke aik nikhattu ke sath kab tak guzaraa karti. ab tak koi aulaad bhi nahi thi. fazl ne Talaq dainay se mana kya to is ne khalla le li, aur apni zindagi ko phir se shuru kardiya. kuch mahino baad is ke ghar walon ne is ki doosri shadi kar di, jahan woh bohat khush thi. fazl ko is ki shadi ka pata chala to woh badlay ki aag mein julne laga. is ne –apne aawara doston ki madad se dasti bomb bananay ka samaan liya aur ghar mein hi bomb bananay laga. is bomb ko woh apni Sabiqa biwi ke liye bana raha tha, is bomb ke zariye woh is ko tarpa kar maarna chahta tha, magar qudrat ne is ke napak iraadon ko kamyaab nahi honay diya aur bomb bananay ke aakhri marahil ke douran hi phatt gaya. jis mein is ki dono tangen zaya hogai, aur kuch arsay baad woh khud bhi apni zindagi haar gaya .
abhi kuch din pehlay aik baap ne –apne betay aur baho ko ghairat ke naam par jaan se maar diya, jin ki do mahinay pehlay hi shadi hui thi. wajah thi tik talk video, jo is ke betay ne apni biwi ke sath banai aur woh vayrl hogayi .
isi saal augst mein Lahore mein aik aurat ko is ke Sabiqa shohar ne qatal kardiya jab woh –apne aabadi gaon jarahi thi. kyunkay is ne doosri shadi karli thi aur bohat khush bhi thi. police ki ibtidayi tafteesh ke mutabiq is qatal mein larki ka baap bhi shaamil hai. kyunkay larki ka pehla shohar is ka cosuon tha, is liye is ki Talaq se is ka baap khush nahi tha aur ghairat ke naam par Sabiqa damaad ke sath mil kar beti ko marwa diya .
rishta nah dainay par log aapay se bahar ho jatay hain. inhen yeh apni tauheen lagti hai aur badla lainay ki koshish karte hain ke hamein inkaar kaisay kardiya. Pakistan mein aurton par tezaab phainknay ki sab se barri wajah rishte se inkaar ya mangni toar dena hai. aur inkaar Pakistani mard se bardasht nahi hota .
Badlay ki aag main sulagta hua muashra’ aik an jee o ke mutabiq Pakistan mein 2007 se 2018 tak aurton par tezaab phainknay ke 1485 waqeat report hue. dehshat gardi ke liye qaim ki gayi khaas adalaton mein aisay mujrimon ke khilaaf karwai ka baqaida aaghaz 2012 se kya gaya, jo ke mujrim ko saza dilwanay ke amal ko taiz karta hai aur is ki wajah se acid hamlon mein 2016 se 2018 tak nisf kami dekhi gayi jo ke hukoomat ki kamyabi hai .
aap ne bhi aisay kayi waqeat ke baray mein akhbarat, social media ke zariye se parha hoga. afsos is baat ka hai ke un waqeat mein musalsal izafah ho raha hai jo ke bohat khatarnaak hai. aap ne jab shadi razamandi se ki, ya walidain ki marzi se ki, dono hi sooraton mein yeh aap ka aik niji faisla hai. agar kisi wajah se yeh rishta nahi chal paata to dono ko hi hansi khushi is rishte se nikal jana chahiye. aik dosray ki zindagi ko jahannum nah banayiyae. Talaq ka matlab hi yahi hai ke ab aap ka is shakhs se ab koi talluq nahi hai. isi terhan agar kisi wajah se larka, larki jo ke shadi karna chahain, lekin nah hopaye to usay anaa ka masla nah banayiyae, balkay apni nai zindagi ki shuruvaat kijiyej aur dosray ko bhi karne dijiye .
Badlay ki aag main sulagta hua muashra’ lekin bad qismati se hamaray muashray mein barhti hui Adam bardasht jahan bohat se masail peda kar rahi hai, un mein se aik badlay ki aag bhi hai, jis mein hamara poora muashra sulag raha hai. yeh kon sa badla hai jo dosray ki jaan lainay se kam hota hai. woh zindagi jo Allah ne inayat ki, jis par aap ka koi haq nahi hai. hukoomat ki jahan zimmay daari hai ke aisay dimaghi mujrimon ko sakht aur fori sazayen di jayen, wahein yeh hamari masharti zimmay daari bhi hai ke –apne bachon ko shakhsi azadi ka ehtram karna seekhiye. aakhir kab tak yeh ghairat ke naam par khoon ki nadyaan bahatye rahen ge .
