Apni khuaishat ko zrorat mat bnaiya
Apni khuaishat ko zrorat mat bnaiya,is faani duniya se rukhsat hotay hue log kya sochte hain aur phir apni zindagi mein ki gayi kin ghaltion par pachhtatey hain, dar haqeeqat yeh aik ahem baat hai. ahem is liye ke 1 shakhs is duniya se ja to raha hota hai lekin –apne kaandhon par pachtawon ki aik gthrhi bhi lade hue rawana hota hai. bistar merg par usay woh tamam Tishna khwahisaat aur tamannaye yaad aati hain jo hamesha ke liye is fard ke seenay mein ik phaans ban kar reh gayeen. kyunkay un ki takmeel mumkin nah hosaki aur mout ka waqt aan pouncha .
log bistar merg par kin umomi baton par pachtaawa mehsoos karte hain, is hawalay se aik aastrilyoy Musanifa , mosiqaar aur motivational speaker browny where ne baqaida aik kitaab bhi likhi jis ka naam hai top five regrets of the dying. yeh kitaab ab bhi apni maqboliat ki intahaa par hai. kitaab ki khaas baat yeh hai ke is mein Musanifa ne bistar merg par mojood tamam mareezon ke aakhri waqeat aur natamam tamannaon ka ihata kya hai aur woh aik hospital mein bator tibbi amlah kaam bhi karti rahen .
Apni khuaishat ko zrorat mat bnaiya, qareeb almrg afraad sab se pehlay yeh sochte hain ke kash woh –apne liye ziyada jie hotay, –apne khawab poora karte aur sirf –apne baray mein sochte. woh yeh zaroor sochte hain ke unhon ne apni zindagi doosron ko khush karne mein sirf kar di aur apni khoshion ko bhala dala .
zindagi ke aakhri dinon mein aap yeh fikar karna bilkul chore dete hain ke aap ka bank balance kitna hai? aap ka tarka kitna bach gaya hai? ya aap makaan banana chaah rahay hain. balkay is waqt sirf aap ki sochon ka mehwar woh afraad hotay hain jo aap ko, aap ki zindagi ko Khushgawar banatay hain aur aap ki choti choti khoshion ko aur bhi barha dete hain. lehaza is duniya se jane walay afraad doosri baat yahi sochte hain .
bistar merg par mojood afraad ki hamesha yeh hasrat hoti hai ke kash woh bohat ziyada kaam nah karte aur apni family ko waqt dete. –apne jazbaat khaas tor par misbet jazbaat ka izhaar –apne pyaron ke liye karte. –apne bachon ko batatay ke woh unhein kitna pyar karte thay ya biwi ke sath kitney wafadar thay ya walidain ke kitney tabay daar thay. yeh woh teesri baat hai jis ka dukh unhein martay dam tak rulay rakhta hai .
qareebi rishte daaron ke baad insaan ki zindagi mein dost bohat ahmiyat rakhtay hain. yeh rishta rabton se hi barqarar rehta hai kyunkay dosti ke rishte mein ikhlaas shart hai. lekin marnay walay ko hamesha yeh afsos rehta hai ke is ne kaarobar ya nokari ki be thaasha masrofiyat ke douran doston se koi rabita nah kya, un ka haal ahwaal daryaft tak nah kya aur jab woh is duniya se rukhsat ho raha hai to is ke dil mein yeh khalish baqi reh gayi hai .
panchawan aur sab se aakhri pachtaawa yeh hota hai ke mein is chand roza zindagi mein khush kyun nah raha? kyun mein ne apni zindagi aur khoshion ki dor doosron se mashroot kar di. kyun mein namsaad halaat mein pareshan raha aur halaat ko khud par haawi karliya. yeh baat is terhan se durust hai ke aksar auqaat hum halaat ko control nahi kar saktay, Albata khushi, nafrat, mohabbat ke baray mein behtar rad-e-amal zaroor day satke hain. is liye khush rehna aur jo hamaray paas hai is ke liye hi khush rehna sab se ziyada zaroori hai .
Apni khuaishat ko zrorat mat bnaiya, un sab baton ke sath kuch cheeze aisi bhi hain jin ka hamein abhi se khayaal karna hai. aik to mojooda daur mein zindah rahiye aur lamha mojood ko ahmiyat dijiye. kisi ki mohabbat ko far granted mat lijiye, chahay woh barray behan bhai hon, usaatzaa, miyan biwi, walidain ya dost ahbaab, un ke sath hamesha taluqaat ustuwar rakhiye .
fitrat ke nazaron se lutaf andoz hon. kabhi yeh khayaal nah kijiyej ke log aap ke baray mein kya sochte hain. is hawalay se yeh baat hamesha yaad rakhiye ke log kisi ke marnay ke baad bhi kehte hain’ aaj mra to kal dosra din’ yani kisi ke chalay jane se is duniya ke kaam khatam nahi hon ge Albata aap ke andar hasaratein zaroor janam len gi. is liye apni khwahisaat ke husool ke liye koshish kijiyej, khush rahiye lekin apni khwahisaat ko zaroriat mat banayiyae. yahi kamyabi hai .
