Ap k ghr maasi nahi aty?
Ap k ghr maasi nahi aty, yeh sirf aaj ki nahi balkay hamesha ki tension hai ke aaj phir massi nahi aayi. kyunkay pehlay to ghar mein kaam karne walay mulazmeen ki talaash aik mushkil amar hai. ab zahir hai ke har bandah qabil aitbaar nahi ke woh aap ke ghar ka aap ki terhan khayaal rakh sakay. aur agar mil bhi jaye to phir un ke nahkre dekho. kabhi thankhowa barhana to kabhi khana piinaa, kapray jootay bhi sath dena, un sab sahulaton ki farahmi ab aik terhan ki riwayat ban chuki hai .
yeh hai aik side ke logon ki raye aur doosri taraf aisay afraad hain jin ka yeh maanna hai ke gharon mein kaam karne walay afraad ke sath baqaida zayad-ti ki jati hai. nah to un ka mashaheera munasib hota hai aur nah hi unhein chhutti lainay ke liye koi riayat di jati hai, ulta aik din bhi woh chhutti karlen to aglay din aik tufaan un ka muntazir hota hai aur qaleel thankhowa mein se bhi katoti hojati hai .
is saaray mnzrname mein dono mkatib fikar ki baatein durust bhi hain aur ghalat bhi. hum ne ghar mein kaam karne walay khidmat guzaron ko insaan samjhna chore diya hai. kabhi unhein baasi saalan aur roti day di jati hai to kabhi kisi bahanay se aisay kapray day diye jatay hain jo hamaray to kya kisi ke bhi pahannay ke qabil nahi hotay. gharon mein kaam karne walay bachay to aur bhi mazloom hain ke un ke maa baap ko un ki bilkul parwa nahi hoti, malkaan un ke sath had darja bura sulooq rava rakhtay hain aur phir unhein koi kari saza bhi nahi millti .
kyunkay hamaray haan qanoon sirf aur sirf kaaghzon ka pait bharnay aur siyahi bharay qalam khaali karne ke liye banay hain to jab yeh sirf kaghazi karwai hi hai to zahir hai is ke itlaq ke liye iqdamaat aur un ka intzaar karna chay maienay dard ?
lekin aaj ke is daur ka aik ahem sawal yeh bhi hai ke hum ne khud –apne hathon se kaam karne ko aar samajh liya hai. khawateen yeh bilkul nahi chahtain ke morning show mein honay wali shadi bayah ki rasomaat, beauty tips aur nnat naye khaano ki trkibin dekhna chore kar ghar ke bartan hi manjh len. ziyada bura to tab hota hai ke bohat si khawateen khaano ki trakib note karti hain aur bachon ki shikayat yeh hoti hai ke aaj phir teenday pakka liye gaye .
Ap k ghr maasi nahi aty, ziyada tar gharon ka nizaam aisa hota hai ke sara ghar nokraani par chore kar khud aaraam kya ja raha hai. haan jab kuch chori hogaya aur bartan ganday dhul gaye, nokraani siyah o safaid ki maalik ban kar achanak chhutti kar gayi aur aap ko dobado jawab dainay lagi tab aap ko ilm sun-hwa ke ab to pani sir se guzar gaya .
dekha jaye to hamari zindagi sawal dar sawal ban kar reh gayi hai. aaj is khandan ko bohat hi mayoob samjha jata hai jin ke gharon mein made nahi. jo log –apne ghar ka kaam khud kar lete hain unhein barri aasani se yeh keh diya jata hai bhae aap to bohat kanjoos hain, daftar se anay ke baad bhi ghar ka kaam khud hi karte hain bhae koi nokraani hi rakh len. matlab massi, nokraani, made, gharon mein kaam karne waliyan bhi ab aik status symbol ban gayi hain. jis ke mutabiq insaan ki zindagi masharti aur muashi aitbaar se tole jane lagi hai .
kisi bhi insaan ki ahmiyat aur Azmat yun mehsoos nahi ki jati ke woh –apne ghar ke kaam khud saranjam deta hai, balkay is ke ghar mein kaam karne walay rokron ki tadaad se is ke muashi rutbey aur is ki izzat ka andaza lagaya jata hai .
yeh rawayya aakhir kab tabdeel hoga? kab hum ghar ka kaam karne walay mulazimo se amtyazi sulooq band karen ge? kab hum unhein bhi insaan samjhain aur un ko taaza khana aur maqool mashaheera den ge aur kab tak –apne gharon ka kaam khud karne mein sharam mehsoos nahi karen ge ?
