Akhlaq ka dohra miyaar……kiun?
Akhlaq ka dohra miyaar……kiun?, shayar Asad multani ne kya khoob kaha hai :
har shakhs bana laita hai ikhlaq ka miyaar
khud –apne liye aur zamane ke liye aur
aaj ke daur mein hum –apne ird gird ke mahol par nazar dorhayin to har shakhs ke atwaar is shair ki akkaasi karte huay nazar ayen ge. yeh insani sarshat hai ke har shakhs apni bhalai ke mutaliq sochta aur amal karta hai. yaqeenan acha aur misbet pehlu samnay rakhna aik khush gawaar amal hai lekin jab aap –apne liye acha sochte hain to phir –apne dost ahbaab ke liye bhi wohi baat kyun nahi soch satke ?
har shakhs chahta hai ke woh duniya mein kamiyabiyan haasil kere, is ka masharti darja buland ho, izzat o shohrat ki kami nah ho, har shakhs is ki misaal deta nazar aaye. lekin jab woh yeh baat sochta hai to is ke dil mein yeh khwahish bhi peda hoti hai ke kahin is ke kisi saathi ko yeh sab cheeze nah mil jayen. agar aisa sun-hwa to is ka saathi is ki barabari kar sakay ga. is terhan is ki ahmiyat kam hojaye gi .
aksar logon ke dil mein yeh khwahish hoti hai ke har shakhs un ke sath adab se paish aaye aur un ki har baat par sir tasleem khham kere. lekin jab baat khud unn ke rawaiyon ki aati hai to unn ki Anaa majrooh hoti hai aur kisi ki baat tasleem karte huay unn ki izzat par harf aata hai. kya is qisam ke ravayye durust hain ?
Akhlaq ka dohra miyaar……kiun?, jab hum –apne baray mein acha soch rahay hain to –apne saathi ke liye kyun nahi? halaank ba-hasiat musalman hamein –apne liye jo kuch pasand ho, wohi –apne musalman bhai ke liye bhi pasand hona chahiye aur phir kisi ke liye bhi manfi ravayye ko –apne dil mein jagah nahi deeni chahiye. lekin is ke bar aks ikhlaq ke dُhre miyaar ki misalein jagah jagah dekhnay mein aati hain. ikhlaq ke is dُhre miyaar ka saamna hamein har maidan mein karna parta hai, chahay woh school o college mein padhany walay tlba ke darmiyan ho ya phir aik daftar ke mulazmeen ke beech, baaz auqaat yeh muzahirey –apne qareebi Aziz o Iqareb aur doston ke taluqaat mein bhi dekhnay ko mlitay hain .
ikhlaq ke is dُhre miyaar ke baais zindagi mein hamein kayi talkh tajarbaat se guzarna parta hai. kya wajah hai ke log is qisam ke dُhre ikhlaq ka muzahira karte hain? yeh baat roz-e- roshan ki terhan ayaan hai ke insani nafsiat ki ibtida bachpan hi se hoti hai. yaqeenan is ravayye ke peechay bhi bachpan ki targheeb ya tarbiyat karfrma hai .
hum aik islami mumlikat ke rehaishi hain aur bator musalman hamara deen bhi hamein rawadari o murawwat ka sabaq deta hai aur musalman bhai ke liye wohi pasand karne ka hukum deta hai jo hamein khud pasand ho. aisi soorat mein is qisam ke dُhre miyaar ke haamil ikhlaq ki hamari zindagi mein Chandan gunjaish nahi. is se pehlay ke –apne munafiqana ikhlaq ke baais hum koi bara nuqsaan uthayen aur chahanay walon ki nafrat ka saamna karen, hamein aisay dُhre miyaar se nijaat haasil karna hogi .
Akhlaq ka dohra miyaar……kiun?hamein apni deegar khamion ko daur karne ke sath sath –apne ikhlaq ko bhi behtar banana hoga. is ka tareeqa nihayat aasaan hai. –apne aap ko yeh bawar krayie ke jo ravayye aap ko napasand hain woh doosron ko bhi giran guzren ge, is liye un rawaiyon ka muzahira nah kijiyej. yaqeenan aap bohat jald –apne halqa ahbaab mein per izzat maqam haasil karlen ge .
