aap ka digital hamzaad, aap ki khodaatmadi barha sakta hai
aap ka digital hamzaad, aap ki khodaatmadi barha sakta hai, bohat se khawateen o hazraat kayi wajoh se awaami guftagu se qatrate hain aur iss kami se zindagi mein peechay reh jatay hain. lekin agar inhen afraad ko un ka djitl hamzaad ya un se mshabehh model ko praatmad dekhaya jaye to is se jhijak khatam karne mein bohat madad mil sakti hai .
guftagu mein pareshani ka saamna karne walay khawateen o hazraat ko unhi jaisa model ya otaar dekhaya gaya. logon ne –apne hi djitl kulon ko praatmad andaaz mein mazboot badan boli ( body language ) ke sath baat karte hue dekha to unhon ne fori tor par is ka assar bhi liya .
swtizerland mein university of laozeen ki mariyan shmt must aur un ki team ne 76 afraad ko aik mutalay ka hissa banaya. un mein aksariyat under graduate tlbavtalbat ki thi aur khotin ki tadaad 33 feesad thi .
un se kaha gaya ke woh majazi samaeen ke samnay 3 3 minute ki taqreer karen. yeh video record ki gayi aur is ke baad tamam shrka ko un se mlitay jaltay ya gair mushabeh computer kerdaron ko dekhaya gaya jin mein kirdaar bohat praatmad lehjey mein guftagu karte dikhayi diye. ab is ke baad tamam shrka ko dobarah teen minute ki taqreer karne ko kaha gaya .
aap ka digital hamzaad, aap ki khodaatmadi barha sakta hai, is tehqeeq ke nataij per gor krnay se maloom hwa ke is video ka farq mard shrka mein ghayr-maa’mooli tor per numaiyan hwa. mardon mein shaamil aisay afraad bhi thay jo awaami guftagu mein nah bolnay ke ehsas mein mubtala thay. jab unhon ne –apne djitl jurwan ko praatmad dekha to majmoi tor par un ki karkardagi 22 feesad behtar hui. is terhan kayi shrka mein khud itmadi bhi note ki gayi .
un mein se jin logon ne hubahu –apne madlon ko dekha to un mein deegar ke muqablay mein ziada aetmaad note kya gaya .
‘ agar aap sharmeelay hain aur samajte hain ke aap yeh ( awaami khitaab ) nahi kar saktay to aap khud ko dekh kar –apne aap ko behtar bana saktay hain. jab aap apna djitl otaar dekh kar is se seekhnay hain to is se zehni tanao daur hota hai aur –apne ravayye ko behtar tor par tasawur hain. is video mein aap khud ko haath hilata dekh satke hain jo aap aam andaaz mein nahi karte to is se khodaatmadi barhti hai.’ dr maryan ne kaha .
lekin herat angaiz tor par jab khawateen ko un ke digital kulon dukhaay gaye to is se un par koi misbet assar nahi hwa. agli tehqeeq mein is ki wajoh jan-nay ki koshish ki jaye gi .
mahireen ne kaha hai ke digital madlon ki bunyaad par logon aur bilkhushoos talib ilmon ko tarbiyat day kar bohat se fawaid samete jasaktay hain .
