aala bi aur hostel ki larkiyan
aala bi aur hostel ki larkiyan, aaj, dour jadeed mein jahan sirf larkoon hi nahin, larkiyon ke liye bhi aala madaraj tak hsolِ taleem ko zaroori samjha jane laga hai, aur un ka gharon se bahar kamanay ke liye jana, sarkari o niji idaron main mulazmat, hatta ke tijarti marakaz mein dukaan le kar bhoutik, beauty parlour chalana ya isi qisam ki karobari sargarmia injaam dena bhi aam ho gaya hai, bilkul isi terhan larkiyan collegeon aur jamiyaat mein science o fanoon ke mazameen ke ilawa takneeki mahaarat ke un shobo main bhi zair-e taleem hin jin main kal tak sirf larke hi dakhla letay thay .
duniya badal gayi hai, aur hamara muashra chand dahaiyo ke douran barri tabdeelion se guzra hai aur guzar raha hai, lekin jahan aaj ki aurat khasi had tak –apne mamlaat mein azad aur khud mukhtar hui hai, wahin chahay larke hon ya lerkiyan, un ki tarbiyat aur kirdaar saazi bohat ahem hai aur usay nazar andaz nahin kya jata .
kehte hain aik Achi, khush gawaar aur ba izzat zindagi, achi taleem o terbiyat hi ki mrhonِ minnat hai. aaj bhi larki jab bayah kar dosray ghar jati hai to jahan is ki taleem, aur doosri Awsaf ko dekha jata hai, wahin kal ki terhan aaj bhi is ka rakh rakhao, qareena saleeqa, andaz guftagu usay dil jeetnay mein madad deta hai. is tanazur main pishِ nazar stor se aap jaan sakay ge ke da pehlay taleemi idaray kis terhan lerkiyon ko alaw taleem se behra mand karne ke sath un ki tarbiyat aur kirdaar saazi par zor dete thay .
aala bi aur hostel ki larkiyan, “inter tak hum waheediya hostel mein rehtay thay jis ki imarat aik name dairay ki shakal mein thi. idher udhar kamray ke beech mein aik bara sa dinnig hall, jis ki dewaron par aur mutafarraq tasaveer ke sath papa miyan aur aala bi ki taswerain barray barray framo mein awezan theen. yeh bani college Sheikh abdullah aur un ki begum waheed jahan ki taswerain theen .
college ki larkiyan bhi unhein isi naam se pukarty theen jis naam se un ke bachay pukarte hon ge. whiidiya hostel ka sang e bunyaad bhi un hi khatoon ne rakha hoga balkay school aur college ki bunyaad hi un naik dil miyan biwi ne daali thi aur is pakeeza maqsad ke liye shana bah shana sae o amal mein girftar be gharzana zindagi busr ki thi .
un roshan dil khatoon ki halki si muskurahat, dil ki terhan ankhen bhi ghair mamooli roshan ankhen theen, labon par khafee FC muskurahat aur dono ke chehray ki pakizgee aur masomiyat aaj bhi meri aankhon mein hai .
suna hai jab yeh doli mein baith kar larkiyon bachiyon ko school tak laane ke liye un ke gharon tak jati theen to qadamat pasand log rastay mein un ki doli par danday barastee thay. baad mein suna hai ke doli ki jagah bail gaari ne le li thi .
un ki wasee o Areez kothhe “abdullah laj” chand qadam ke faaslay par thi, magar kayi lawaris larkiyan jo hostel mein muqeem theen woh shab o roz un hi ke zair-e saya rehti theen. yeh un ke liye khana pakwati aur un ke sath hi khati theen. un ke libaas, nahanay dhoney, kanghi chouti ki fikar rakhtin aur un ko zindagi busr karne ke gُr sikhati.
zindagi ka jo sancha woh muqarrar kar gayi theen, wahan ki larkiyon ki tarbiyat isi dhab par hoti rahi. ab ka haal kkhuda jane magar yahan Pakistan mein aksar ne mujh se yeh sawal kya ke “ali garh ki parhi hui larkiyan sab aik jaisi kyun hoti hain! wohi aik sa suljha hwa andaaz, qadeem o jadeed ka aik munasib imtezaaj, hosh mand magar itni saada ke andaaz se bilkul gharelo lagti hain. ”
aala bi aur hostel ki larkiyan, sach kaha bilkul darzi ki soi, motay Maheen se yaksaa guzarnay wali. yeh aala bi ki tarbiyat thi jo nslan baad nasal muntaqil hoti rahi. chana chay wahan ki tarbiyat Yafta larkiyon ka qareena aik sa hi raha. ”
