2021 main ya 3 kaam zror kijeay
2021 main ya 3 kaam zror kijeay, sachhi baat yeh hai ke is mauzo par likhnay ka koi iradah nahi tha. hum mein se aksariyat ki zindagi kisi mansoobah bandi ke bajaye hadsaat ki pedawar hoti hai. waqt aur halaat ke dhaaray par bahtay hue chalay jatay hain. bohat se doston ne jab baar baar sawal kya to mere zehen mein jo araha tha likh diya .
2021 main ya 3 kaam zror kijeay, sab se pehlay yeh samjhiye ke hum insaan hain. har insaan ki apni shakhsiyat hai aur apni infiradiat. kamyabi ka jo formula mere liye kaam karta hai, woh ho sakta hai aap ke mood ke mutabiq nah ho, aap ki tabiyat par giran guzray. mera ilm bhi mehdood hai ke mein koi universal formula tayyar karsakeoon jo sab ko pasand aajay. is liye mein kuch Hadayat dainay ke bajaye aap ke samnay kuch sawalaat rakhta hwa jata hon. un ke jawabaat dhondiye umeed hai aap ka saal kaar amad bantaa jaye ga .
sab se pehlay aur sab se ahem tareen sawal hai aap apna waqt kaisay aur kin kamon mein sirf karte hain? dekhieye insani tareekh mein aaj tak anay walay saaray kamyaab tareen insanon ki terhan hamaray paas bhi 24 ghantay hain. hum mein aur kamyaab tareen insanon mein farq bas itna hai ke kon waqt ka kaisay istemaal karta hai. jack ma ne aik interview mein bataya ke log kehte hain dekho is ne itnay jaldi itni taraqqi karli aur itna paisa kamaya. lekin woh yeh nahi dekhte ke jab dosray soye hotay thay to mein kaam kar raha hota tha. baqi companian jitna kaam teen mahinay mein karti theen hum din raat aik karkay wohi kaam aik mahinay mein karte thay .
to janab aap aik kaghaz qalam lijiye aur likhna shuru krdijye aap rozana kitna waqt kis kaam mein lagatay hain. chunkay yeh kisi ko batana nahi, lehaza poori imandari se kijiyej. aur phir dekhieye ke rozana ki bania par kiye jane walay kon se kaam aisay hain jo bilkul fuzool hain aur aap ki zindagi mein koi value add nahi kar rahay. aisay tamam kaam jo aap ko kisi terhan ka koi faida nahi day rahay, un se foran jaan churra lijiye. misaal ke tor par agar aap cricket khailtay hain aur is se aap ko kuch paisay mlitay hain to yeh baat samajh mein aati hai, lekin agar aap teen ghantay screen ke agay baith kar match dekhnay mein guzaar dete hain to yeh aap ne –apne sath kitna zulm kya. baaz auqaat film dekhna zaroori hota hai, misaal ke tor par mere aik dost ne english filme dekh dekh kar apni english suneney, samajhney aur bolnay ki salahiyat behtar ki, lekin agar aap teen ghantay mehez chaskay lainay ke liye film dekhte rahay to koi value add nahi hui .2021 main ya 3 kaam zror kijeay
doosri ahem tareen baat yeh ke aap ke ird gird ka mahol kaisa hai? yaad rakhiye yeh kahawat bohat ahem hai ke aik machhli poooray talaab ka pani gandah kardeti hai. balkay aik saada tajurbah bhi kya ja sakta hai. dhair saaray taaza sebon ke darmiyan mein aik kharab saib rakh dijiye. thoray din mein dekhen ge ke saaray hi saib kharab ho jaien ge. mahol aap par bohat assar dalta hai. aap ke ird gird kaam karne walay log hon, to nakamay se nakamay insaan ka bhi kaam karne ka dil kere ga. lekin aik bohat mehnati insaan ko agar kuch nakamy logon mein chore diya jaye woh kuch din mein un jaisa hojaye ga. is ki kayi misalein aap ko apni zindagi se mil jayen gi. mere samnay ki aik misaal hai. aik mehnati taalib ilm tha, class ka tapr lekin kaafi masroof. is se aik din is ke dost ne kaha mein university ka ziyada tar waqt aap ke sath guzaarna chahta hon, aap jab bhi classes se free hon mujhe bataya karen. is ka dost jo pichlle simstr mein sirf paas hwa tha aglay simstr mein class mein dosray number par tha. mein ne dost se poocha yeh inqilab kaisay aaya? is ne jawab diya, darasal jis larke se dosti ki, woh har waqt padhany ki baatein karta rehta. is ki saari sargarmia bhi isi ke ird gird ghhoomti theen. aahista aahista mujhe bhi aadat par gayi. aap zara ghhor se dekhieye class mein hamesha Laiq taalib ilmoon ka aik group hota hai jo sath sath rehtay. woh sab hi Laiq nahi hotay, kuch taalib ilm mehez un ke sath rehne ki wajah se Laiq ho jatay hain .
to janab aap ke dost kis terhan ke hain? aap ki mahfilen kis qisam ke logon ke sath hain? un ka jaiza lijiye aur koshish kijiyej zara –apne se ilm mein afzal logon ke sath uthna baithna shuru karen .
teesray number par woh point rakhon ga jis ka zikar mein ne sab se pehlay kya. aap ne –apne waqt ka jaiza le liya? aur –apne liye acha mahol bhi tayyar karliya. lekin kis liye? yeh sab karne ka maqsad kya hai? hum mein se bohat ziyada log baghair kisi mansoobah bandi ke zindagi guzaar dete hain. is ke bar aks aap barray logon ke interviews aur bio graphi padhiye. woh bachpan se hi aik maqsad le kar chal rahay hotay hain. Mohammad Ali jinah ko jab aik martaba kuch mahana raqam ke aiwz nokari ki offer hui to unhon ne jawab diya itni raqam to mein aik din mein kamaana chahta hon. darasal jab up ki zindagi aik maqsad ke tehat chal rahi hoti hai to aap ghair zaroori cheezon mein waqt zaya nahi karte, idhar idhar nahi bhataktay. is ki misaal aisay hi hai ke jab aap ko pata ho ke Lahore mein aik bohat zaroori meeting hai jis mein sirf 5 ghantay baqi hain to aap Islamabad mein khana bhi nahi khayen ge ke kahin meeting mِs nah ho, be shak aap kitney hi bhukay kyun nah hon. lekin agar aap ko bataya jaye ke meeting 3 din baad hai to aap ho sakta hai –apne un rishte daaron ki qabron par bhi jayen jinhein marey hue 100 saal guzar gaye .
to teesra sawal yeh hai ke aap ki zindagi ka maqsad kya hai? aap kyun jee rahay hain? aap kyun parh rahay hain? agar aap ne aaj tak apni zindagi ka maqsad nahi banaya to aaj hi sochiye. yeh maqsad haqeeqi aur qabil amal hona chahiye. misaal ke tor par mein aik acha insaan banon ga, aik ghair haqeeqi aur na qabil feham baat hai. is se aap ko koi motivation nahi miley gi. lekin ab is jumlay ko yun dekhieye ke mein dr ban kar ghareeb o nadaar logon ko muft ilaaj ki sahoolat fraham karkay acha insaan banon ga. mein aisi kitaaben likhon ga jo logon ko naffa den. yeh haqeeqi maqasid hain jo aap ko motivation day satke hain .
2021 main ya 3 kaam zror kijeay, to janab apni zindagi ko maqsad degiye aur jab aap maqsad day den to wapas zara point number aik ki taraf jayen aur dekhen ke kya aap ki rozana ki sargarmia aap ko –apne maqsad ke qareeb kar rahi hain ya daur. agar daur kar rahi hain to aisi sargarmia ikhtiyar karen jo aap ko maqsad ke qareeb karen. aur phir point number 2 ki taraf jayen aur sochiye ke aap ke ird gird jo dost hain aur jo mahol hai, kya yeh aap ke maqsad ke husool mein rukawat hain ya madadgaar? agar rukawat hain to jaan chhadaiye .
2021 ke shuru mein agar aap itna sa kaam karlen aur is par poori terhan amal pera rahen to mujhe umeed hai 2021 ke ekhtataam par aap –apne aap se bohat mutmaen aur pehlay se kahin ziyada kamyaab hon ge .
